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What is a submissive?

3/18/2020

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What does it mean to be truly submissive? Are there variants? Yes and no. There are many people who identify as switches and can be a Top or bottom but a true submissive is a very different creature. While a true submissive can “play” Top if need be, it makes them uncomfortable and it simply doesn’t feel right. It’s total play acting and some cannot even get sexually excited over it.
While there are a plethora of different types of submissives, the psychology that lays behind what makes each person submissive is relatively similar. The different types are dependent on what gets them off.

Several types of submissives (this is not a full list):
  1. Service sub - A service sub gets off on doing things for his Mistress. He is turned on and emotionally satisfied when cooking her dinner, doing her dishes, cleaning her shower, giving her foot rubs, even scooping up her dog’s shit. And hands down, every Mistress loves a service sub and I give extra points if they do all of that while naked and caged!
  2. Masochists - While this can cross over into another category, masochists get off on being beaten, or humiliated or forced.
  3. Brats - a brat will talk back, be snarky, argue and even flat our refuse to do what they are told.
  4. A Slave - a slave is sometimes difficult to fully define. One slave I met was naked, collared and on leash at her Master’s feet. I think of a slave as someone who will do my bidding, at all times, no matter what. They are my own personal everything. If I want to beat them, they will submit. If I want them to clean my toilet with their tongue, they will do it without question. If I want them to run my household, they will do that too. If I want them to pleasure me for 7 hours without stopping, that makes them happy.
  5. A Sissy - sissies can be a combination of any of the above but they revel in dressing like a woman, acting like a woman and being treated like a woman.

What every “true” submissive has in common is their need to be Dominated. There are various degrees of course, such as 24/7 or only in the bedroom but every single submissive I know is wired similarly. They want to be told what to do, they need to be told what to do, they crave it. It’s a turn on for them and so is making their Mistress or Master happy. This is their true nature. They are here to serve and if they aren’t serving someone, in some way, they are unfulfilled.

~ Rain Star


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    Author: Rain Star

    Mistress Rain began her writing career at a very early age. She's published almost a dozen novels (under a different pseudonym), has written for television and film and spends much of her time with her nose buried in the furry coat of her constant canine companion. The rest of her time is spent telling her stable of subs what they can do for her.
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